LONELINESS

            Have you ever felt lonely? or Have you ever felt lonely even when you are surrounded by your loved ones? or Have you ever felt that something is missing in life?  If the answer to these questions is "yes" then you know the pain of being lonely. How helpless we feel about knowing that we are lonely. 

I guess all of us have felt lonely either for a short or long period in our life. You can't judge whether a person is lonely or not. A person might be lonely even if he has a big friends' circle or you see him smiling in front of others. You never know what's going inside a person's head. There is a possibility that a person interacting with many people might be lonely and trying to overcome it by interacting with new people. 

Lonely people often avoid confessing it just because of the fear being judged by friends. Generally, people feel lonely when they have lost interest in life due to some mishappening or they feel they are cut out from the society or they have a bad image in front of others or they feel no one cares for them. These kinds of people are either always silent and alone or in a group where they constantly try to gain the attention of them by doing funny and petty things.

        A classic example of it can be drawn from the life of the greatest Oscar-winning comedian of all time, "The little tramp" Charlie Chaplin. We only saw the on-screen hilariousness he provided us with but little did everybody know about his life which was filled with pain and loneliness.


If you want to overcome this feeling of loneliness then-:

1) Firstly, you shouldn't be shameful about it and do stunts in order to fit into the society as it will question your individuality which is not good for your personality so "just try to be you."

2) Secondly, you must understand that loneliness is not always about "no one is beside me" it may be even that you don't want anyone besides you because you think you haven't achieved anything in life. So try to achieve your dreams just like Charlie Chaplin and in the run, you will notice the change.

3) Thirdly, try to communicate with people and if you think there is no around you then, communicate with the nature. Talk with the chirping birds in the morning, the gust of wind during the day and the moon at night.

4) Last but not the least, you must understand that loneliness is not a disease which can be cured by simply eating a pill, it's a feeling which will take some time to heal so don't be impatient
and let the time heal you.

Do read these quotes given by Charlie Chaplin-:

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